Money Talks

Loving kindness meditation always starts like this. Meditator will start by reflecting happy moments that he experienced in the past and wish himself to be well and happy. When this feeling is strong, then the meditator will start to radiate the loving kindness slowly out, to people that that close to the meditator, and slowly out until covering the whole world.
The idea that happiness should be started from oneself is very important, because unhappy will not be able to make other happy. In order to make other people happy, one should make himself happy first! This is not lofty idea like in the film, in which the hero will sacrifice himself or his happiness just to make other people happy. In the case of Buddhism, or rather in the case of wise people, he will ensure that he is happy first before extending his happiness to more and more people.


I think this is also related with the issue of money. When I first learnt about Buddhist concept of money management, as per below I found it quite startling and a little bit difficult to be understood:

The big question is of course, why the Buddha advises his lay disciples to put big chunk of their money, not to help people but for investment? (note that helping people is one of personal enjoyment). It doesn't make sense  at first if we were to consider the Buddha as someone that is compassionate. But then, upon further contemplating on this issue, it might make sense after all. The Buddha is probably advising that in order to help other people, we have to help ourselves first. In other words, if we do not have excess with money, how can we help people who need help? As the result, it becomes important to save the money for rainy days (savings) and invest it (eg. start your own business, etc) so that one does not have worry on money, and in the future that person is in the strong position to help other people (do note that the advise to the ordained (monks and nuns) are opposite as they are not supposed to have any money at all.


From this point of view, money is not evil or noble, but it is just a tool. In a way, it is something like amplifier. If one has the tendency to do good and help people who need it, having more money will increase the capability of that person to help more people. In the other hand, if one is occupied by anger, then money will amplify that anger to make many more people suffering in this world. 


This comes to the point that unlike popular stigma that Buddhists do not value money, and at times seem to see money as the source of evil. This is not true. The Buddha's view of money to his lay disciples is a positive one, it's a tool that if were to be used correctly has the capacity of helping many people (think of Anathapindika, and Visakka, the two wealthiest lay disciples of the Buddha who consistently help needy people). 
But then, the advise is also a simple one. One should not be attached with money. When one has more, one should learn to be contented with it. And when one has little, one should also be contented with it. In a way, having little or money do not and will not have any impact on the state of happiness that one has.